Obesity Defined – I Know You Want To Do It Your Way
Being obese and admitting that you are can be very difficult. Most obese people refuse to even get on a scale. Defining what is obese in your mind and facing the “obesity” reality is only a beginning.
Obesity Defined-I know You Want To Do It Your Way
I know, yes I know you are asking yourself,”what is the point here”? What problem am I trying to identify and what solutions am I representing?
I have been writing about Obesity for over two years and still find that most of you refuse to admit that you “Have It”. Most of you live from one meal to another and have very little energy yet, you have tremendous energy to defend your right to “do it your way”.
Denial is the best form of escapism. Defined:escape: an inclination to retreat from unpleasant realities through diversion or fantasy; “romantic novels were her escape from the stress of daily life”; “his alcohol problem was a form of escapism”.
Living a life of fantasy can be very rewarding for many yet very dangerous form others. Obesity in it’s purest form is only an admission of your unwillingness to accept responsibility. Now, their is a statement that reflects most of the people I meet.
Most of you have no energy to defend your cause. By living in a fantasy world you close the door to receiving help because you do not listen. Your mind is shut off from reality and your refusal to admit it is taking you to your grave.
Stop defending your inabilities to cope with your eating habits and start by listening with open ears.
If you are still alive, yes I am serious, their is hope in many forms if you just stop playing games and listen for a change. Alive is not a term used lightly here. Most obese people in denial are dead and just waiting to be buried.
If you do not accept responsibility, blame others and start defending yourself. Their is no shame if you can blame others or events or even foods.
I know you want to do it your way. How has it been working for you? Your way, if you are still obese after all the attempts you have made to become “normal”, is only another form of denial.
Obesity Defined-I Know You Want To Do It Your Way. Why?